Many people who love Jesus a lot disagree on what the role of women in ministry should look like. This confusion comes from several NT passages that need to be walked through carefully, under the direction of the Holy Spirit whom inspired these passages for the church then and now.
To help you discovery what you think the Bible says and to develop a deeper appreciation for the other side, we encourage you to read the below articles and ask questions. May this not be a divisive issue for the us at FBC as what is more important than whatever position we have is what Ephesians 4:3 instructs us to "make every effort to seek the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace."
For a good, in-depth article for the Egalitarian view click here
For a good, in-depth article for the Complementarian view click here
For a brief overview of both sides click here